rocsteady
Sep 06 2006, 10:18 PM
Terry Toolen, are you ok?
I paid for a disc on ebay over 2 weeks ago and never heard anything....ever.
He has a perfect feedback of 25, so I'm sure something crazy happened but ive tried 6 times to email/ get a message out and nothing. Hope all is well.
Any help?
okcacehole
Sep 06 2006, 11:38 PM
You can usually find him on the Arlington Disc Golf Club thread..if you don't have any luck..maybe contact Pat Brenner or get back with me
tjtoolen@aol.com
Pizza God
Sep 07 2006, 12:44 AM
I will vouch for Terry, he can get busy and take longer than expected to do things. I would not worry about it that much.
willyc
Sep 07 2006, 09:52 AM
Terry doesn't have access to a computer during the day anymore....give him a couple of days and I'm sure that your disc will appear on your doorstep. :cool:
Toolen is a stand up guy! I will also vouch for him. He does a lot of good in A-town. He will do right by you!
oklaoutlaw
Sep 07 2006, 04:39 PM
Terry may be a little slow sometimes, but will do what he says. I've never seen him be slow by choice but sometimes life slows him down. I am positive your disc will come to you.
I paid for a disc on ebay over 2 weeks ago and never heard anything....ever.
Was it a banshee??? ( inside joke )
rocsteady
Sep 13 2006, 08:12 PM
Well, after 9 emails and ebay message attempts, STILL NO ANSWER. I'm going to have to file a claim with ebay and paypal soon. Any help would be appreciated! THIS STINKS!
willyc
Sep 14 2006, 09:49 AM
Saw him last night and I did mention it to him. He stated that he would look into it. He just switched jobs and his only access to a computer is from home....unforunately he is rarely home. /msgboard/images/graemlins/ooo.gif
Pizza God
Sep 14 2006, 01:08 PM
Toolen switched jobs again??
Who is going to run the VPO this year. Is Toolen going to do it again.
rhett
Sep 14 2006, 01:10 PM
I thought he was a mailman. Or is that someone else?
Pizza God
Sep 14 2006, 01:16 PM
Kelly Hicks is the mailman
I should be seeing him tonight, I will inquire
rhett
Sep 14 2006, 02:38 PM
Kelly Hicks is the mailman
Ahhhhh, okay. :)
willyc
Sep 14 2006, 02:38 PM
He is a dog-stealing mailman is what he is! :o
HFDS184
Sep 14 2006, 06:06 PM
What's up, Mr. Willy? :D
Mr. Roc, you're right, it stinks. Especially since you don't know the guy. I hate having to wait for a disc I purchased on eBay. All these people, including Mr. Toolen, are pretty good sorts, though, so please give Terry a couple more days and see what his explanation is. Like you said, he's got a good rating, so I'm sure it's not intentional. You can always come play VPO and kick his a**. Thanks
willyc
Sep 15 2006, 02:38 PM
Good to hear from you Kent. I've had several people ask about my cart, wanting to know if they could get one also...still making them?
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 11:58 AM
Well, still no contact from Toolen after 1 month. The only one who is taking effort (besides me, and surprisingly, my mail carrier) is a very cool friend of Toolen. If he doesnt get me my goods, im looking forward to chronicling the prosecution efforts HERE! Ive done some preliminary research and If it involves the US postal system (like contracting to use the system to complete contracts), its a good chance that the person WILL BE SLAMMED. Also, when an Ebay auction has been paid for with Paypal, youve got an iron clad case AND they (Ebay now owns Paypal) have stepped up there prosecution efforts to answer the increase in this activity. Normally I'm not such a jerk, but him NEVER answering my many emails has driven me insane! I can just picture him reading them and chuckling, while sitting back and relaxing. It isn't like you havnt been warned, Terry Toolen!
baldguy
Sep 19 2006, 12:16 PM
have you tried contacting him by phone or by mail? Is email the only method you've tried? What if he lost his ability to get email?
I've met Terry a few times, and I've been around him and his family for several years in the DFW DG community. I know lots of people who will vouch for him... and this sort of post isn't really making you look like the good guy in this situation. The fact is that it's a disc auction, you're both disc golfers, and the amount is far too small for either of you to get upset about or to try to screw the other one over.
Back off a step or two, be civil, and try to cover all of your bases before you start an unnecessary battle over a frisbee.
okcacehole
Sep 19 2006, 12:21 PM
Are you still talking with Jason Chamberlain regarding this?
Well, still no contact from Toolen after 1 month. The only one who is taking effort (besides me, and surprisingly, my mail carrier) is a very cool friend of Toolen. If he doesnt get me my goods, im looking forward to chronicling the prosecution efforts HERE! Ive done some preliminary research and If it involves the US postal system (like contracting to use the system to complete contracts), its a good chance that the person WILL BE SLAMMED. Also, when an Ebay auction has been paid for with Paypal, youve got an iron clad case AND they (Ebay now owns Paypal) have stepped up there prosecution efforts to answer the increase in this activity. Normally I'm not such a jerk, but him NEVER answering my many emails has driven me insane! I can just picture him reading them and chuckling, while sitting back and relaxing. It isn't like you havnt been warned, Terry Toolen!
Mr Roc Steady, I will be glad to settle this issue for you. I propose one of two options. If you will tell me what type of disc you are purchasing, I will gladly purchase one for you, or I will fully refund your money . I am not going to sit by and let any individual SLAM one of my friends. Toolen is a stand up guy, who works hard for disc golf in the metroplex. If you choose to persue one of these options. I will be glad to settle up with Mr Toolen @ a later date. I REFUSE TO STAND BY AND LET A COMPLETE STRANGER SLAM ONE OF MY BRO'S. THREATS WILL GET YOU NO WHERE!
vinnie
Sep 19 2006, 12:48 PM
yeah I will do the same...I have a large roc collection and I might be able to match your purchase
see roc steady.......
DONT MESS WITH TEXAS!
Pizza God
Sep 19 2006, 01:10 PM
Will do the same. I bet one of us will have the disc you ordered. Give us the ebay number so we can see what what up for auction.
see roc steady.......
DONT MESS WITH TEXAS!
see.........
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 01:22 PM
Why can't Terry just make good and send my disc? For that matter, why can't he even aknowledge me? When his friend told him about it, he said he would "look into it" What's there to look into? Is it wrong for me to say something? Am I a jerk for wanting my disc? Can I stop asking so many questions?
Alacrity
Sep 19 2006, 01:22 PM
I am not sure if I have the Roc you are looking for, but if you will post the E-Bay number I will also look through my collection. I do not know Terry that well, but all experiances I have had with him was that he was a stand up guy. Please post what you purchased and someone here will make it good for you.
Jerry Power
(903)312-7776
baldguy
Sep 19 2006, 01:26 PM
I think we all appreciate your need for resolution, and several people have offered to make this deal good for you. I personally don't know what kept Mr. Toolen from responding to you, but my best guess is that it wasn't something within his control. Post your auction and let one of us take care of this so we can all move on to bigger things... like the VPO that I'm sure Terry will have a big part in making happen.
tbender
Sep 19 2006, 01:26 PM
see roc steady.......
DONT MESS WITH TEXAS!
Please. Instead of saying what a great guy Terry is (and offering to cover for him), someone needs to get Terry in contact with this guy and settle it out. I like Terry too, but taking a month to handle an eBay sale is pushing ridiculous.
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 01:27 PM
New Never Thrown 1991 Mid America Open Innova Ontario Roc from Columbia Missouri. 177gram. PS I am looking for new-slightly used glow ontarios if anybody wants to sell one.
baldguy
Sep 19 2006, 01:32 PM
please post a link to the auction. Unfortunately, we can't search that far back, but if you have a link, we should be able to view it.
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 01:37 PM
I'll say one thing, as I told JC, someone posted me a PM saying good luck tracking him down because he posted late up on the boards regarding a tourney he was running and he was complaining that only 33 peeps showed. Now, if terry is putting together tourneys ON HIS OWN TIME so people could enjoy playing in tourneys in your area, he has earned some big credit with me as I know how much (thankless) time and effort it takes to put one on. Actually, it was that negative PM that made me stop the claim I was filing. Funny how things work out.
Anyway I only havew till the 22nd to file or I will lose my paypal claim rights. So, if i dont get a tracking number (at least) I'll have to start proceedings on the 22nd.
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 01:39 PM
ebay Item 180017328820. just put this number in the search box
Toolen is now behind the wheel of a truck all day. ( his new job )
Unfortunately, he is not able to sit behind a computer all day and hash this out. I am sure there are circumstances beyond his control, i.e. lost in the mail........
rocsteady
Sep 19 2006, 01:41 PM
Honestly I think he was hoping to get about 10 bucks more for it, so He began humming and hawing.... Cost me a HECK of a lot more in grief and time.
understandable!
But he is not going to trash his credibility for 10 bucks!
" WHAT WE HAVE HERE IS A FAILURE TO COMMUNICATE "
of which, Terry is the major contributing factor. He will still do you right ! If I am wrong I will be more than willing to submit a formal apolagie.
baldguy
Sep 19 2006, 01:48 PM
a $15 disc cost you that much grief and time?
hopefully someone here has an unthrown roc with that stamp and we can get this over with. trashing someone's name on the boards over what is just a simple misunderstanding... *sigh*
okcacehole
Sep 19 2006, 01:52 PM
I just left Jason a voicemail to see if I can help you out...
Do you want the disc for the stamp itself or just an Ontario Roc? That can be replaced by one of the offers here very easily if it is just for the disc.
chappyfade
Sep 19 2006, 03:00 PM
I just left Jason a voicemail to see if I can help you out...
Do you want the disc for the stamp itself or just an Ontario Roc? That can be replaced by one of the offers here very easily if it is just for the disc.
I've looked through my stuff, since I played in that event in 1991, and was TD of the event for a few years afer that. I have some used things with that stamp, but they're pretty beat up, and no Rocs. Rick Rothstein was the TD that year, and I know Rick doesn't have anything left with that stamp. Too bad, it was a pretty cool stamp, especially for 1991. I'll ask some of the Columbia boys, but I'm not optimistic.
Chap
Alacrity
Sep 19 2006, 03:08 PM
Honestly I think he was hoping to get about 10 bucks more for it, so He began humming and hawing.... Cost me a HECK of a lot more in grief and time.
No can do from my collection either. I never had one of the stamps. I am pretty sure I have some Ontario Rocs, but they are NOT new.
I did not rip you off. I have not had access to the internet for three weeks. I apologize for the serious inconvinence this has put you through and I will either refund your money or ship you the disc. It is up to you. Again I apologize for the lenghty delay!!
Pizza God
Sep 19 2006, 10:23 PM
Hey Terry, how is the new job :D
jasonc
Sep 19 2006, 10:57 PM
I did not rip you off. I have not had access to the internet for three weeks. I apologize for the serious inconvinence this has put you through and I will either refund your money or ship you the disc. It is up to you. Again I apologize for the lenghty delay!!
And this response would look alot less ghay without the St Boooooey avatar :D
rocsteady
Sep 20 2006, 12:59 AM
Please just send the disc as soon as possible. And please give me a tracking number.