Monroy Gowens

markpeterson · Dec 21 2009, 01:40 PM

For those who haven't heard yet, Monroy Gowens died sat in a garage fire. I don't know exact details so I will just say that his smiling face will be greatly missed at the golf course. Rest in peace brother.

kwibby1 · Dec 21 2009, 09:49 PM

WOW thats awful R.I.P my disc brother

msbatka · Dec 22 2009, 01:01 AM

Monroy was a great person - plain and simple. You could never tell how well or poor he shot at a tournament just by looking at him because he was always smiling and laughing. While he was a very good player, he never took it too seriously. Disc golf was all about fun and friendship. The last time I saw him was at the 2009 Mad City Open. He greeted me with a big hug. There was a lot of joking around. His personality was infectious and for good reason. I will miss him a lot. I already do. Rest in peace Monroy.

Mike Batka

hole5guy · Dec 22 2009, 01:27 AM

I had the privilege of being Monroy's doubles partner this Saturday morning. The instant our discs both landed upside-down I knew I was in for a good time regardless of whether we played well. I was having a rough morning and Monroy as a teamate was a blessing. I had a smile on my face for two hours thanks to Monroy's good nature and his fun-loving personality.

I was heartbroken upon news of his passing. Less than 12 hours after I waved goodbye to him did I find out that I would never golf with him or hear his voice again.

My thoughts and prayers go out to those who knew him best: his family and close friends. I can't even imagine how hard it is for you.

My memories of Monroy include his constant smile, the occasional Negro Modelo, the mention of an impending throat punch (all in jest), and the way he was friendly and encouraging when I was new to the sport and to the community.

My friend, you will be deeply missed. I am grateful for the rounds we have played together and for having known you.

DiskDog · Dec 22 2009, 07:54 AM

How tragic...I was just speaking with him on that Saturday. He always had the time to say "hello". Going to miss you Bro.

20165 · Dec 22 2009, 02:03 PM

Rest in peace Monroy, you'll never be forgotten. Thanks for all the GREAT memories, team SWED will never be the same, but with your laugh, smile, and one of a kind personality you will live forever in all our hearts.

McManus · Dec 22 2009, 02:46 PM

It is difficult to believe that Monroy is gone. He was a great guy, always positive, always had a good word to say. My favorite memory of Monroy is when he partnered up with Barry in a skins game at the 2005 Milwaukee Open and hit some giagantic shots to win some big money. He was a great guy.

widiscgolf · Dec 22 2009, 02:48 PM

Sad day... He will be missed.... Great guy and person... Take care all.

tkieffer · Dec 23 2009, 10:31 AM

Terrible news. Always was upbeat and smiling whenever I met him. He'll be greatly missed.

Rest in peace, Monroy!

jrumble · Dec 23 2009, 10:50 AM

RIP my brother. We will all miss your smiling face and your never ending good cheer.
I first met you at the first Fish Fly Open when we tied at 9 down to go into a play off.
God Bless you and your family. I'm glad to have known you. To play golf, tip back a few beers and share in some laughs.

MARKB · Dec 27 2009, 11:27 AM

I just read this and heard for the first time here and have to say I am shocked and saddened by this news. I just saw him that day too at Dretzka in the morning as I got out to play a few holes. He was in great spirits as always.

He will be missed, great guy on and off the course. May he rest in peace.

discglfr · Dec 28 2009, 01:03 AM

My last memory of Monroy was one of my favorites. He and good buddy Dave O'Keefe were at the Howler on hole 17 but my partner and I were starting on 4. I couldn't help but run over and chat with them while warming up because they were heckling me as usual. Needless to say they were both hammered and practically rolling on the ground while we all talked a little trash and prepared for the upcoming round. I politely declined the PBR offer and I know they were happy because they really didn't want to give one up anyway. Fun loving, hearty laugh and smile, and always a pleasure to play with. As others have already stated - Monroy had a spirit that more disc golfers should emulate.

I received the phone call about the news from Sleepy on Sunday morning just 20-some minutes after a tragic call from my step-father. The inevitable time had come as my beloved mother had passed away just hours after Monroy. 3.5 years ago she had an inoperable brain tumor and she underwent extensive chemo and radiation. The cancer was in remission for over 3 years until they found a massive tumor just a few weeks ago. On December 10th I was with her until she went into surgery to have it removed. They removed most of it and hoped to get the rest with a cyber knife. Unfortunately her post operation recovery didn't go well enough for that to happen and about 10 days later she passed away. I like disc golf and lots of other things out there but I have no greater love than what I have for my wonderful mother. She is far too young at the age of 58 to have multiple bouts with brain tumors but as the saying goes, "Life just isn't fair sometimes". I love and miss you mom!

Nothing prepares you for helping write your own mother's obituary: http://www.postcrescent.com/apps/pbc...=2009912270569

My mother's funeral will be the 4th one for me in about 5 weeks. As some others may have already known, we also lost local disc golfer back on December 1st and that was Mike Zippel (PDGA 30887). He died tragically as a result of his friend being under the influence of drugs and alcohol.

Does anyone know of any services or arrangements for Monroy? I have been watching JSOnline since that day but haven't seen any news or updates regarding any services.

I apologize that this post veered all over - I didn't really know what was about to come out when I decided to finally write.

tmart59 · Jan 08 2010, 09:55 AM

Can anyone confirm the Info below?

"There will be a service for Monroy this Sunday Jan. 10th, 2PM at the Irish C.C. 2133 W. Wisconsin Ave.(Downtown Milw.) Enter at the rear. All are welcome to attend. The family would like all Monroy's friends to attend. Short service, food & drink, then Packer game. Hope to see you there."

ICHC

discglfr · Jan 08 2010, 10:23 AM

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/jso...&pid=138280015 which reads:

Gowens, Monroy Xavier Was called home Dec. 19, 2009, at age 39. Born and raised in Milwaukee, WI, Monroy played, loved, and lived his entire life full of energy and always with the brightest of smiles. Monroy was a well known and well respected professional disc golfer and journeyman electrician. Monroy was born to Patricia Gowens and Albert Monroy Gowens April 29, 1970. He is survived by his brothers Patrick and Andre Gowens; grandmother Anne O'Brien. Also survived by his life partner JennyMarie Farris. Monroy's joyful spirit will be greatly missed, but will live in our hearts forever. As Monroy would often say "Every little thing is going to be alright!" Memorial ceremony is Sun., Jan. 10, 2010, at the Irish Cultural and Heritage Center (2133 W. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee, WI 53233, 414 345-8800) begins at 2PM. Thank you everyone for sharing your memories, kind words, and support! Live life, party down!

markpeterson · Jan 09 2010, 09:23 PM

Nice job Terry!!

widiscgolf · Jan 15 2010, 11:27 PM

It was really nice to see all the people that cared for Monroy at the services. He had such a big smile and big heart.. greatly missed...

Dec 21 2009, 01:40 PM	#1
markpeterson PDGA Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Slinger Disconsin Posts: 404	Monroy Gowens For those who haven't heard yet, Monroy Gowens died sat in a garage fire. I don't know exact details so I will just say that his smiling face will be greatly missed at the golf course. Rest in peace brother.

Dec 22 2009, 01:01 AM	#3
msbatka PDGA Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Madison, WI Posts: 385	Monroy Gowens Monroy was a great person - plain and simple. You could never tell how well or poor he shot at a tournament just by looking at him because he was always smiling and laughing. While he was a very good player, he never took it too seriously. Disc golf was all about fun and friendship. The last time I saw him was at the 2009 Mad City Open. He greeted me with a big hug. There was a lot of joking around. His personality was infectious and for good reason. I will miss him a lot. I already do. Rest in peace Monroy. Mike Batka

Dec 22 2009, 02:48 PM	#8
widiscgolf PDGA Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: West Bend, WI Posts: 2,144	Sad day... He will be missed.... Great guy and person... Take care all. __________________ www.widye.com www.ozdgc.com www.gldgc.com

Dec 28 2009, 01:03 AM	#12
discglfr PDGA Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Milwaukee Area, Wisconsin Posts: 981	Too much bad news this month My last memory of Monroy was one of my favorites. He and good buddy Dave O'Keefe were at the Howler on hole 17 but my partner and I were starting on 4. I couldn't help but run over and chat with them while warming up because they were heckling me as usual. Needless to say they were both hammered and practically rolling on the ground while we all talked a little trash and prepared for the upcoming round. I politely declined the PBR offer and I know they were happy because they really didn't want to give one up anyway. Fun loving, hearty laugh and smile, and always a pleasure to play with. As others have already stated - Monroy had a spirit that more disc golfers should emulate. I received the phone call about the news from Sleepy on Sunday morning just 20-some minutes after a tragic call from my step-father. The inevitable time had come as my beloved mother had passed away just hours after Monroy. 3.5 years ago she had an inoperable brain tumor and she underwent extensive chemo and radiation. The cancer was in remission for over 3 years until they found a massive tumor just a few weeks ago. On December 10th I was with her until she went into surgery to have it removed. They removed most of it and hoped to get the rest with a cyber knife. Unfortunately her post operation recovery didn't go well enough for that to happen and about 10 days later she passed away. I like disc golf and lots of other things out there but I have no greater love than what I have for my wonderful mother. She is far too young at the age of 58 to have multiple bouts with brain tumors but as the saying goes, "Life just isn't fair sometimes". I love and miss you mom! Nothing prepares you for helping write your own mother's obituary: http://www.postcrescent.com/apps/pbc...=2009912270569 My mother's funeral will be the 4th one for me in about 5 weeks. As some others may have already known, we also lost local disc golfer back on December 1st and that was Mike Zippel (PDGA 30887). He died tragically as a result of his friend being under the influence of drugs and alcohol. Does anyone know of any services or arrangements for Monroy? I have been watching JSOnline since that day but haven't seen any news or updates regarding any services. I apologize that this post veered all over - I didn't really know what was about to come out when I decided to finally write.

Jan 08 2010, 09:55 AM	#13
tmart59 PDGA Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Sussex, WI Posts: 233	Memorial for Monroy Can anyone confirm the Info below? "There will be a service for Monroy this Sunday Jan. 10th, 2PM at the Irish C.C. 2133 W. Wisconsin Ave.(Downtown Milw.) Enter at the rear. All are welcome to attend. The family would like all Monroy's friends to attend. Short service, food & drink, then Packer game. Hope to see you there." ICHC

Dec 21 2009, 09:49 PM	#2
kwibby1 PDGA Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: sussex,wi Posts: 95	WOW thats awful R.I.P my disc brother

Dec 22 2009, 01:27 AM	#4
hole5guy PDGA Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 51	I had the privilege of being Monroy's doubles partner this Saturday morning. The instant our discs both landed upside-down I knew I was in for a good time regardless of whether we played well. I was having a rough morning and Monroy as a teamate was a blessing. I had a smile on my face for two hours thanks to Monroy's good nature and his fun-loving personality. I was heartbroken upon news of his passing. Less than 12 hours after I waved goodbye to him did I find out that I would never golf with him or hear his voice again. My thoughts and prayers go out to those who knew him best: his family and close friends. I can't even imagine how hard it is for you. My memories of Monroy include his constant smile, the occasional Negro Modelo, the mention of an impending throat punch (all in jest), and the way he was friendly and encouraging when I was new to the sport and to the community. My friend, you will be deeply missed. I am grateful for the rounds we have played together and for having known you.

Dec 22 2009, 07:54 AM	#5
DiskDog Community Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 11	How tragic...I was just speaking with him on that Saturday. He always had the time to say "hello". Going to miss you Bro.

Dec 22 2009, 02:03 PM	#6
20165 Community Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Milwaukee, Wisconsin Posts: 108	Rest in peace Monroy, you'll never be forgotten. Thanks for all the GREAT memories, team SWED will never be the same, but with your laugh, smile, and one of a kind personality you will live forever in all our hearts.

Dec 22 2009, 02:46 PM	#7
McManus PDGA Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Gurnee, IL Posts: 33	It is difficult to believe that Monroy is gone. He was a great guy, always positive, always had a good word to say. My favorite memory of Monroy is when he partnered up with Barry in a skins game at the 2005 Milwaukee Open and hit some giagantic shots to win some big money. He was a great guy.

Dec 23 2009, 10:31 AM	#9
tkieffer PDGA Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Campbellsport, WI Posts: 1,078	Terrible news. Always was upbeat and smiling whenever I met him. He'll be greatly missed. Rest in peace, Monroy!

Dec 23 2009, 10:50 AM	#10
jrumble Community Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Rumbletown, WI Posts: 42	RIP my brother. We will all miss your smiling face and your never ending good cheer. I first met you at the first Fish Fly Open when we tied at 9 down to go into a play off. God Bless you and your family. I'm glad to have known you. To play golf, tip back a few beers and share in some laughs.

Dec 27 2009, 11:27 AM	#11
MARKB Community Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Milwaukee Wi Posts: 690	I just read this and heard for the first time here and have to say I am shocked and saddened by this news. I just saw him that day too at Dretzka in the morning as I got out to play a few holes. He was in great spirits as always. He will be missed, great guy on and off the course. May he rest in peace.

Jan 08 2010, 10:23 AM	#14
discglfr PDGA Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Milwaukee Area, Wisconsin Posts: 981	JS Online Obituary http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/jso...&pid=138280015 which reads: Gowens, Monroy Xavier Was called home Dec. 19, 2009, at age 39. Born and raised in Milwaukee, WI, Monroy played, loved, and lived his entire life full of energy and always with the brightest of smiles. Monroy was a well known and well respected professional disc golfer and journeyman electrician. Monroy was born to Patricia Gowens and Albert Monroy Gowens April 29, 1970. He is survived by his brothers Patrick and Andre Gowens; grandmother Anne O'Brien. Also survived by his life partner JennyMarie Farris. Monroy's joyful spirit will be greatly missed, but will live in our hearts forever. As Monroy would often say "Every little thing is going to be alright!" Memorial ceremony is Sun., Jan. 10, 2010, at the Irish Cultural and Heritage Center (2133 W. Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee, WI 53233, 414 345-8800) begins at 2PM. Thank you everyone for sharing your memories, kind words, and support! Live life, party down!

Jan 09 2010, 09:23 PM	#15
markpeterson PDGA Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Slinger Disconsin Posts: 404	Nice job Terry!!

Jan 15 2010, 11:27 PM	#16
widiscgolf PDGA Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: West Bend, WI Posts: 2,144	It was really nice to see all the people that cared for Monroy at the services. He had such a big smile and big heart.. greatly missed... __________________ www.widye.com www.ozdgc.com www.gldgc.com Last edited by widiscgolf; Jan 23 2010 at 03:32 AM.

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